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to help and to be helped

Many of us say we want to help people, and we enjoy helping people. But not many of us would want to admit that we want to be helped.  Continue reading “to help and to be helped”

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Rose Petal Martini

It was a Friday night. I was in this Award party, more like, I was more brought to this party by someone. As a result, I had to be stuck with this same person the whole time, and I had to pretend frequently to use the bathroom just to take a break.

On my way there, I had eye contact with this guy that looked as if he was pulled straight out from a TV show in the 70s- leather jacket, flare-out pants, white sneakers, and of course the hairstyle. Continue reading “Rose Petal Martini”

10/13/2017

This post is in light of a conversation with my friend a couple days ago, on the note of over-disclosure and over-trusting. So I told her my favorite egg example.

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09/28/2017

Live and let live.  Continue reading “09/28/2017”

9/20/2017

The definition of loneliness, at least in my dictionary, is not that one has no other person around, but that when one wants someone, no one is around. Same goes to we think that no one likes us- there are other people that like us, but we just care about the ones we like that don’t like us back. Continue reading “9/20/2017”

8/19/2017

Was used the word “infatuated” on today. The moment I saw his text, my immediate thought was that I got how Macchiato felt about me. To be honest, for that little amount of like he had for me, what Macchiato did showed that he was really a nice person. At least as opposed to Macchiato, I stopped texting this guy for a long time. Continue reading “8/19/2017”

8/1/2017

Just figured this is a good time to sit down and write a post.

In the past 2 weeks, the scale has slid from my side to depression. To me, depression is not something I should defeat, but to live with and minimize its influence. Yet recently, I am not doing so good a job since depression has taken over my mindset to control my actions. Sad face.

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A Few Other Words on Growing Together

Macchiato wanted to prioritize his career, I understood but didn’t want to wait. Sometimes we encounter guys like him- they know what they want, and we somehow happen to meet them at the very critical moment that they can either make it through an opportunity or not. (There are cases where it is the girl instead of the guy. But to make my life easier, let’s just assume it’s the guy.) Continue reading “A Few Other Words on Growing Together”

a few words on the parent-child relationship

This post is mostly dedicated to a dear friend that I have known for long but only connected recently.

Over the times I’ve been thinking about why many of us had strong issues with our parents. I love my parents more than anything, but it was not until long before I could really understand and could really put down all the unresolved feelings in order to move on.  Continue reading “a few words on the parent-child relationship”

learn to love

This morning my friend told me she did not like the present given from her boyfriend. She told me she had told him what she disliked, but well, he happened to give her a gift with all the features she did not approve.

Sounds familiar, huh? Continue reading “learn to love”